Is it okay to masturbate secretly?

its totally fine to be doing it secretly....in fact that's private and your mom doesn't need to know about it. and its nothing you need to see a gynecologist about. once you start having sex you definitely need to and once you reach the age of 18, whether youre sexually active or not, you should see one just to have everything checked out. also, you can get vibrators, dildos or just use your hand!